9.24.2009
Learn...
Learn... that when you plan to get even with someone, you're only letting that person continue to hurt you.
Learn... that ignoring the facts do not change the facts.
Learn... that the easiest way to grow as a person is to surround yourself with people smarter than you are.
Learn... that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Learn... that life is tough, but you can be tougher.
9.23.2009
10 Ways to Spot a Liar
10 Ways to Spot a Liar
by: Katarina Kovacevic
It should be said that women were given a sixth sense for a reason. “Women’s intuition” is not just an urban myth so if your gut is telling you that your man is lying then he most likely is. But if you’re looking for a little more justification than just a funny feeling, here are some experts’ tips:
1. “Good liars will often have a quick and smooth response and use tactics that will redirect attention back to you or incite some kind of emotional response in you that can divert attention away from them and the lie,” said Manhattan-based clinical psychologist, J.Cilona. “Most other people might fumble a bit or show embarrassment. This is sign that they are not so sophisticated a liar and perhaps just made a bad choice.”
2. Dr. Eddy Kloprogge of FreudTV says you can detect lies by the way a person is smiling. “Forced smiles are easy to spot since they involved the muscles around the mouth,” said Kloprogge. “In a real smile, more facial muscles besides the mouth are involved. A dead giveaway is tightening around the eyes, which sometimes causes crows’ feet.”
3. Dr. Eddy also believes the behavior of other body parts can be a dead giveaway on whether or not a person is telling the truth. If their arms, legs, or hands are stiff and self-directed then they’re most likely lying. “The hands may touch or scratch their face, nose or behind an ear, but are not likely to touch their chest or heart with an open hand.”
4. “Be aware that sometimes men lie because their lady forces them to,” said Daylle Deanna Schwartz, author of Nice Girls Can Finish First. “If you’re overly possessive or jealous or have rules he doesn’t agree with, he may lie to avoid an unpleasant situation.”
5. Be a pseudo detective and check out his story – not by stalking him but by taking time to think through what he tells you. “Many liars are big at making up stories and they believe in being very dramatic. In the end, though, their stories just don’t add up,” said Coy Long, CEO oh Hotlanta Matchmakers.
6. Long also warns that a person who is lying will often times rapidly change the topic of conversation to try and throw the other person off. “They also get really defensive and their tone of voice is inconsistent with their body movements.”
7. Dr. J. Cilona tells people to be very aware of the other person’s answers and body language. “Many people pick up on subtleties without being totally aware of them and new research even shows that we can actually smell fear in the perspiration of others. These kinds of cues are often out of our awareness and get labeled as a feeling or intuition. Consider this to be one of the most important reasons for concern.”
8. Language and word usage can be a telltale sign for liars, according to Kloprogge, who tells clients to be conscious of the other person’s word choice. If they’re repeating your own exact words when answering a question or avoiding direct statements and answers they’re probably not being honest.
9. Answers drenched in humor or sarcasm is an indication that they’re trying to avoid a subject – a big no, no.
10. Silence truly is golden. Kloprogge advises to allow total quiet into the conversation as it will give you a chance to observe their reaction. A person who is lying will most likely become very uncomfortable and restless when there is a pause in conversation.
by: Katarina Kovacevic
It should be said that women were given a sixth sense for a reason. “Women’s intuition” is not just an urban myth so if your gut is telling you that your man is lying then he most likely is. But if you’re looking for a little more justification than just a funny feeling, here are some experts’ tips:
1. “Good liars will often have a quick and smooth response and use tactics that will redirect attention back to you or incite some kind of emotional response in you that can divert attention away from them and the lie,” said Manhattan-based clinical psychologist, J.Cilona. “Most other people might fumble a bit or show embarrassment. This is sign that they are not so sophisticated a liar and perhaps just made a bad choice.”
2. Dr. Eddy Kloprogge of FreudTV says you can detect lies by the way a person is smiling. “Forced smiles are easy to spot since they involved the muscles around the mouth,” said Kloprogge. “In a real smile, more facial muscles besides the mouth are involved. A dead giveaway is tightening around the eyes, which sometimes causes crows’ feet.”
3. Dr. Eddy also believes the behavior of other body parts can be a dead giveaway on whether or not a person is telling the truth. If their arms, legs, or hands are stiff and self-directed then they’re most likely lying. “The hands may touch or scratch their face, nose or behind an ear, but are not likely to touch their chest or heart with an open hand.”
4. “Be aware that sometimes men lie because their lady forces them to,” said Daylle Deanna Schwartz, author of Nice Girls Can Finish First. “If you’re overly possessive or jealous or have rules he doesn’t agree with, he may lie to avoid an unpleasant situation.”
5. Be a pseudo detective and check out his story – not by stalking him but by taking time to think through what he tells you. “Many liars are big at making up stories and they believe in being very dramatic. In the end, though, their stories just don’t add up,” said Coy Long, CEO oh Hotlanta Matchmakers.
6. Long also warns that a person who is lying will often times rapidly change the topic of conversation to try and throw the other person off. “They also get really defensive and their tone of voice is inconsistent with their body movements.”
7. Dr. J. Cilona tells people to be very aware of the other person’s answers and body language. “Many people pick up on subtleties without being totally aware of them and new research even shows that we can actually smell fear in the perspiration of others. These kinds of cues are often out of our awareness and get labeled as a feeling or intuition. Consider this to be one of the most important reasons for concern.”
8. Language and word usage can be a telltale sign for liars, according to Kloprogge, who tells clients to be conscious of the other person’s word choice. If they’re repeating your own exact words when answering a question or avoiding direct statements and answers they’re probably not being honest.
9. Answers drenched in humor or sarcasm is an indication that they’re trying to avoid a subject – a big no, no.
10. Silence truly is golden. Kloprogge advises to allow total quiet into the conversation as it will give you a chance to observe their reaction. A person who is lying will most likely become very uncomfortable and restless when there is a pause in conversation.
8.19.2009
I Want to cool down gurl. . .
My yummy chocolate parfait . . pagsaputon ko usually mukaon ko ug fries or ice cream then afterwards, ok na ako hehehe weird though but it's true. Lately kasi mxado me stress so i need to relax and cool down. Xempre together with my friends.
With Charyn here. . .
Hhmmm. . . delisiosa
Charyn . . katuwang ko sa food.
Yah. . hapit na mahurot..lolz
8.15.2009
I'm so Happy and Sad! ! !
Last Friday was our last and final exam for our first term. I have two remaining subjects to take that day, my Eco 1a and Marketing 1. After taking examination in Eco, i ran to my next subject which is my marketing1. We're all excited because it's also the announcement of who is the best group in Product Presentation. Around 5:00 pm we finished our examination and right away we prepare our tarpaulins and product to judge ma'am bulao who's the best and who's not. She rated every group and revealed our scores by criteria.Our group got 4 points in Tarpaulin, 3 points in TV ad, 5 points on radio ad, 5 points in group coordination, 5 points for the unique product, 5 points on packaging and lastly, 5 points on the product set up . . for a total of 32 points. And, surprisingly we got the highest score among the 5 groups. Me and my group we're all happy about the result.. we can't imagine that we won hahahahaha!!! Grabe tlga yung experience. . ung effort, time, sacrifices and patience lahat lahat ng yun worth it. And, Mataas grade namin nun. CONGRATS TO US!!!
Hungry and Mad. . . mixed emotions!!! hungry coz 10:00 pm na, di pa kmi kumakain coz me and charyn are waiting for our friend charie. Mad, coz nag away kmi ni Mr. 13 coz ang tgal nya di nagreply and his out with his friends somewhere.kainis!!!!Nung di dumating c charie, cha and i decided na kkain nlng kmi then pupunta kmi kna denis after.So, denis came coz i texted him na mlapit lang kmi sa knila then we went to denis place at naginuman. kinalimutan ko na lang problema ko.. .nakakasira ka tlga ng mood 13!!!
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